01-13-2025, 11:00 PM
Hayden listened as he put the last of the fixings away and cleaned the counters. And then he topped of Elyse's OJ and poured him a glass. He hopped up on the counter opposite her and listened to her go on about her love life. Not his best area of expertise, but he had some experience in this particular venture.
"I can't say I'm the best person for advice. Sex is either fun, or a tool to be used to get what I want. I don't do relationships beyond the this is fun. But I live with a girl once, she loved me but no matter what she did I never returned the feelings. She was great. Totally adored her. Sex was amazing but I kept telling her that love wasn't for me. She left one day out of the blue. I didn't even know who she was at that point. It was like she was a totally different person. So I know being on a one sided relationship is tough. If your questioning it now, you'll probably question it later. So I know what happened between you and Nox. Know the details in not so crisp details, but I know what he did, who he did it with. And I know it's not your fault. There were a lot of underlying issues at play, things he didn't know about back, things he'd forgotten, pushed back. But, did you think that was going forever, knowing the kinda person he was, the life he lived before you? You had to know he was a player. I only bring it up because she obviously told you about her polycule, but something let you see more. You've talked about it. You need to decide what you want. Are you looking for forever? cause if you are then end it where it's at, when you are friends, and not when you hate her for not loving you the way you want her too. But don't leave it hanging. End it, be honest. And if you have feelings in a month, revisit your feelings. But you gotta talk no matter what it is. Don't resent one another."
"I can't say I'm the best person for advice. Sex is either fun, or a tool to be used to get what I want. I don't do relationships beyond the this is fun. But I live with a girl once, she loved me but no matter what she did I never returned the feelings. She was great. Totally adored her. Sex was amazing but I kept telling her that love wasn't for me. She left one day out of the blue. I didn't even know who she was at that point. It was like she was a totally different person. So I know being on a one sided relationship is tough. If your questioning it now, you'll probably question it later. So I know what happened between you and Nox. Know the details in not so crisp details, but I know what he did, who he did it with. And I know it's not your fault. There were a lot of underlying issues at play, things he didn't know about back, things he'd forgotten, pushed back. But, did you think that was going forever, knowing the kinda person he was, the life he lived before you? You had to know he was a player. I only bring it up because she obviously told you about her polycule, but something let you see more. You've talked about it. You need to decide what you want. Are you looking for forever? cause if you are then end it where it's at, when you are friends, and not when you hate her for not loving you the way you want her too. But don't leave it hanging. End it, be honest. And if you have feelings in a month, revisit your feelings. But you gotta talk no matter what it is. Don't resent one another."