11-20-2025, 12:57 PM
Cadence let Lore talk, listening intently, and noticing the way that Lore beamed at her compliment. Lore was completely in her element right now and was clearly enjoying the whole situation. The excitement was palpable, and it was hard not to get a little excited too. Cadence allowed it. But Lore had ultimately found the rub of the matter. She was running on depleted. Right now, things were better - a break in recording for the holidays had allowed her to recharge and she was feeling pretty good, but it was now easy to see where the emotional crash was coming.
The mention of overlap brought a response from Cadence. "There are times when we are working that it sort of becomes a collaborative creative space. Yes we're working, but it feels different. There's a different energy there. There are even times when we just sort of goof off for a bit. I don't discourage it, because it feels like we all need it a bit. I could see how planning some of that could be helpful, but these ones usually aren't. The spontaneity of it sort of keeps it magical - particularly in the creative bits."
What was really standing out for Cadence though was the idea of a PA. So much could be fixed by that. Even when recording, she was sometimes thinking of the pile of laundry or dishes at home. Getting someone to help with that, and also keep her focused when she needed to be was becoming essential, especially since her popularity was only getting bigger.
"Well, they need to be patient for sure. I'm not always easy to work with, especially when I'm close to anxious or panic. Most people can learn how to deal with it, and the band is always willing to help someone new figure out how to do with my idiosyncrasies. Along with that - trustworthy, but that seems something any PA would need to be," she flinched a bit as she continued. "This is going to sound bad, but a female would be preferred, simply because it's easier for me to trust them. I know that sounds bad, but there are reasons why that is the case. It's going to be easier to build a trusting relationship with a woman." Cadence paused and thought some more. "You know, it might be great to have someone who knows when to push and knows when to hold back. Is that too much to ask?"
The mention of overlap brought a response from Cadence. "There are times when we are working that it sort of becomes a collaborative creative space. Yes we're working, but it feels different. There's a different energy there. There are even times when we just sort of goof off for a bit. I don't discourage it, because it feels like we all need it a bit. I could see how planning some of that could be helpful, but these ones usually aren't. The spontaneity of it sort of keeps it magical - particularly in the creative bits."
What was really standing out for Cadence though was the idea of a PA. So much could be fixed by that. Even when recording, she was sometimes thinking of the pile of laundry or dishes at home. Getting someone to help with that, and also keep her focused when she needed to be was becoming essential, especially since her popularity was only getting bigger.
"Well, they need to be patient for sure. I'm not always easy to work with, especially when I'm close to anxious or panic. Most people can learn how to deal with it, and the band is always willing to help someone new figure out how to do with my idiosyncrasies. Along with that - trustworthy, but that seems something any PA would need to be," she flinched a bit as she continued. "This is going to sound bad, but a female would be preferred, simply because it's easier for me to trust them. I know that sounds bad, but there are reasons why that is the case. It's going to be easier to build a trusting relationship with a woman." Cadence paused and thought some more. "You know, it might be great to have someone who knows when to push and knows when to hold back. Is that too much to ask?"